The 23-Tips of Self-Parenting
The purpose of the 23-Tips of the SELF-PARENTING Program is to make sure that you, as the Inner Parent, learn the “mildly strict” procedures of the Self-Parenting sessions.
Once these initial guidelines become habit, they will not seem strict at all, but what they are — an set of protocols needed to differentiate your Inner Parent and Inner Child within your sessions.
Time and time again, I have found that when your sessions “aren’t going right” it is because you, as the IP, are violating one or more of the 23-Tips. They are here for your Inner Child’s protection and safety. If you don’t follow them as an Inner Parent, your IC will know long before I do. In fact, your IC is paying way more attention to how well you are following these tips than you might realize. To print a copy for your session book click a1-The-23-Tips-2-sheet or for larger type, a2-The-23-Tips-4-sheet.
So follow them; they absolutely represent “best practice” and they are the basis for all Intermediate and Advanced S/P work. They are listed on the next page.
